In my opinion, being able to travel alone is a sign of independent personality. The freedom brought by a traveler's career is far more than a piece of honey soap.
Independence, I left my hometown in my twenties when I started traveling alone. In those days, a friend said to me half sympathetically and half derisively, "I have never seen such a poor person like you!" But I didn't feel at all. If I can live abroad, I will study when I miss studying, and work when I want to work. I will not starve. I never owe money to buy a flight ticket. Why do others think I am poor?
Many people in the world think that wealth means wealth. Travelers have different values. Travelers value freedom most. Friends owned businesses, houses, cars, families, etc., all of which were properties I didn't have at that time. But he doesn't have as much freedom as I do.
In order to ensure freedom, the money needed is not much. The key is that the money must be your own. As long as the money you earn is only a bar of soap, you can enjoy the spiritual luxury. One year, I worked in the Royal Bank Building in Toronto, engaged in business that was not in accordance with my nature, and felt almost imprisoned. When I got my salary at the end of the month, I went to the western medicine store underground and bought a piece of fragrant and lubricating gold soap, which was made of high-quality honey and was full and oval. I still can't forget the spiritual freedom brought by that bar of soap.
Most people who travel around during their single and newly married years stop traveling once they have children. That can be said to be a very rational choice. But my own desire for travel overwhelms reason. I have to carry the baby, carry the baby and push the stroller Travel? must not. But children will have fever, diarrhea and bad temper when they arrive in a foreign country where they are not acclimatized. I once drove to a Muslim hospital in the middle of the night in the dense forest of East Malaysia, holding a child with a high fever; Once, in the suite of Qianmen Hotel in Beijing, I spent a whole week in vain with angry children; Once at the front desk of the YMCA Hotel in Taipei, the waiter on duty saw me bringing two children in, and said, "You still need to travel like this?" Yes. It is also necessary to travel. Why? Can only say: because I am a traveler.
My child has a second passport before he went to Tokyo Disneyland. Before McDonald's hamburgers, I had eaten Beijing Roast Duck and Taipei Shabu Shabu. What do you think about this little brother and sister? It is not known at present. Maybe we will discuss it one day when they grow up and start to travel by themselves.
